A crack in the feminine psyche allows bad men to disempower good women. — “The day she begins to catch sight of every drop of patriarchal oppression, disrespect, and abuse in her immediate surroundings …” There was a time in history when men tipped their hats to a lady as she went by, and at the very least, they took their hats off when…

With the release of Janelle Monáe’s steamy adult-themed music video, “Lipstick Lover”, her music industry persona is suddenly shifted … and unclear. — Janelle Monae has freed herself of gender roles, gender conformity and male-centeredness, and most phenomenally, she did all of this while bashing no one else’s truth. If you thought I planned to come to you today to hate on Janelle Monae’s sexy face, perky brown breasts, cute round cocoa-colored booty…

Black Women — Please Get Over Russell #RelationshipGoals” Wilson — I am a black woman and I do not want to date, marry, or have sex with Russell Wilson or the “Russell Wilson Type”. There! I said it! Lord Have Mercy on My Lost Hoodrat Soul! I had to say this, and if you are wondering why, it is because I cannot take another moment of…

This Month Tarot Gives us the Tea on Lazy Doms, Frivolous Money Habits, Emotional Ties, and Chasing the Bag — Here it is — June! We arrived so fast. For those of you pursuing, looking for, or in love … there are a few mishaps you want to avoid this month. “… your Dom will be lazy as fuck this month.” Air Signs For those of you that enjoy Dominant/Submissive vibes in…

In an Oppressive Patriarchal Society — Who are Women to Pray to? — “She was cursed to suffer painful birth so sayeth the Lord.” In an Oppressive Patriarchal society — who are women to pray to? Are women to pray to the God of the Holy Bible? Are women to pray to the vengeful and wrathful God of the old testament that created…

He only chose to, from his throne, rain a little sunshine on someone as pitiful as yourself. Have you made the decision to stand up to that narcissistic man or woman in your life yet? You may not know he’s there to be honest. These people can be very well…

The Wounded Feminine Inside the Abusive Male: Is He Acting Out His Mother’s Pain, or His Father’s Example? — “He will present as scary, and oppressive to his family, just as his father had in his past.” The abusive male in romantic relationships, is he acting out his mother’s pain, or his father’s example? When hearing of abusive relationships, for the sake of analysis, this is a question I…

Exploring the Personality of The Empress, Her Role in Tarot, the Universe, and the Lives of Everyday Women — The Women of Tarot Series The Empress tarot card is part of the Major Arcana in the traditional Ryder-Wait tarot deck. Her number is 3. In Spirituality, the number 3 represents manifestation, growth, immaculate conception, birth, the soul, the “Holy Trinity,” and creativity. In the story of creation, on the…

The Black Feminist Collective Really Needs to Let Pick-Meesha Live Her Best Life — “Yes, “Struggle Love” is damn sure the enemy.” Equality. Everybody seems to be fighting for it. Equality is always a topic of conversation and it probably always will be, especially since there is a need for equality in many different spaces, races, places, and cases. One of the primary spaces…