Global Powerhouse Beyoncé as Representation of a Common Modern Day Paradox — the Male-Dominated Feminist — “I feel that, especially now, with the Internet and paparazzi and camera phones, it’s so difficult to maintain mystery,” she told the magazine. “And that’s so important. Even in a relationship, I feel like not being that accessible is really important.” — Beyoncé, 2008 … and, at the moment I…

Men Soliciting “Unofficial Sex Work” are Not Exempt from the Costs ‘Male Dates’ Pay when Securing Weekend Sex Workers — Wait! Sis, what!?!? You didn’t get “flewed out”. You flewed yourself out?!??!??!?!! How does that work?!? When did that start?? How is this practice all of the things of the things?!??

Covert Narcissist Feigning Romantic Interest in Unsuspecting Victims is Cold, Cruel, and Dishonest — Just tell people when you are not romantically interested in them! I mean it. It is not rude. It is not impolite. It can be done with charm, compassion, and consideration for someone else’s feelings, and it is the adult thing to do. … and, here comes the problem. Many…

Gender Wars in the Black Community have Spun out of Control Creating an Atmosphere of Misandrist Hatred Levied Towards Black Love, Black Men, and Black Relationships. — “They are filled with vitriol, pain, spite, and misplaced venom that should be placed at the feet of a highly trained psychiatrist …” Gender Wars in the Black Community have spun out of control. Social justice and the women’s rights movement, womanism, the Fight for Reproductive Health and the protection of black women — feminism, and the collective fight for black…

When Gender Inequality Plays a Role in Romance — Who else has experienced this? You speak up or exercise your right to exist in a relationship and some power crazed man … “punishes you”? Is this not the most childish and unnecessary concept on Earth, but oh yes … it does exist. You may have made the decision to…

Women are Diminished in the Eyes of Admirers the Moment they Tip the Scale — Sometimes, women age or gain weight — even “beautiful women”. I know you’re shocked, but pick your jaw up off the floor and hear the rest of this. Have you ever paid attention to the reaction the public hurls at “beautiful women” who gain weight, fall ill, or age? It’s…

A Man in his 50's Brags about a History of Narcissistic Abuse in Past Love Relationships during Happy Hour — “It was in this bachelor pad that he made the decision to move-in with his girlfriend of two-years, Tisha.” In 2017, I had the unfortunate displeasure of hearing a chauvinistic tale of male entitlement. It made my tail itch from here to California — and I think I should share…

Women in their Forties are Still collecting Sugar Daddies — but aren’t they already Cougars though?? — I’m confused. There is this whole Sugar Baby/Sugar Daddy craze going on now. Young women have become fascinated with the idea that older men will fund them endlessly for a little peak at that their ooh-la-la. Ok, pause. I’m no fool. We all know that old guys have been paying…

Black Women’s Contempt for the Black Male Collective has Become a Poisonous Road Block to Building Black Families and Sustaining Black Sisterhoods — “… let’s not pretend that black women’s contempt for the black male collective has not become a poisonous road block to other black women …” When it comes to building relationships, love bonds, families, and legacies with black men, black women are not allies to other black women.